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Though I have only been coaching basketball a few years at this point, there are a few things that have stuck out the most in terms of what it takes to be a successful coach. I believe that one of the most important traits a coach could possess would be that he/she is coachable. Well...that may seem a little counterintuitive. Wouldn't something like strong leadership, courage or perseverance fall under the category of "most" important? The truth is I'm not sure, but from my experience, the more coachable I am as a coach, the more coachable my players are as athletes. Jesus taught his disciples how to be coachable, I think he demonstrated what it meant to be coachable through the example he set in his prayer life. He is constantly seen throughout the bible praying, asking God for direction and remaining humble. Jesus in turn strived to teach his disciples to do the same. Let's take a closer look at what it takes to be coachable in our daily lives:
2. Being coachable takes initiative. John 13:15 says “I set the pattern for you, that, just as I did to you, you should do also.” Jesus took initiative by telling his followers to follow his example. He tells them that he has laid the foundation. He is referring to the fact that just moments before he took the time to wash each individual apostle's feet. Knowing that he is the Son of God, he brought himself beneath his followers to display humility. (Refer to point #1 about humility!) The washing of the feet was supposed to be the house servant's job, yet Jesus decided to take on the role of a servant and wash the feet of his disciples. What example are we trying to set as coaches and then telling people to follow? We have to be willing to stick ourselves out there to public criticism, being proven wrong or even embarrassed. We need to ask questions, seek out answers, and then try to make changes without anyone having to tell us to do it. That's what it means to take initiative. Opening ourselves up to that kind of vulnerability can seem frightening, but that is what it takes to be a great coach. If we are the ones seeking out the help, then that will help us to be much more coachable and less resistant to change. If it is other people always telling us what we need to do to get better then it becomes more difficult for us to take ownership of the things we are trying to correct.
We are all capable of being coaches because we all have God's Word to pull from and use to coach one another (Hebrews 3:12-13). The moment we think we have it all figured out is the moment we should no longer be coaching, there is no room for that type of attitude when people's future are at stake.
What are some other traits that you believe are necessary in order to be coachable? Comment below!
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